Oct 05, 2005, 02:02 pm
Thanks Sass & Morgan,
Where I see myself in five years time? At a little oasis miles from cities and stress, perhaps bandaging the odd sore toe now and then, in between siestas and cooling cocktails ! Relaxed and happy with life . . . away from kids . . .
Oops - wake up matty! Well I do like morgan's mention of home in five minutes, my last ED placement in the country was like that :-) The five year time thing was asked by one of my lecturers who seemed quite keen that I should be running a ward at least by then, if not a whole hospital! My only thought was I want to pass the exams, hand in the essays and get a job ;-/
But I will probably have to stay where I am in outer suburbia, and am a little torn between a small nearby country town hospital (like something out of Country Practice) and a growing major city one also nearby but the other way (with a pace more like All Saints). I thrive on stress and busyness, but also love the way one gets to do more personal nursing in a less busy country setting where more varied skills may be needed.
Moving is probably not an option. I'm a single dad of three, shifting schools and finding family day care as good as I have now would be impossible/a miracle. If I moved I would probably also have the hassle of more family court issues over access - even though the mother was the one who abused the older kids, family court is still a bit old fashioned in having trouble coming to grips with the concept of an abusive mum rather than father. Bang goes my peaceful oasis :-(
I don't like the current GNP system in SA. It mainly seems unfair because the people at the hospitals are actually telling us to accept anything and then decide which to knock back. Which leads to everyone applying for lots of places and many thinking they have missed out. Loving, caring profession ... cutthroat edge :-/ Makes me feel mean for taking a week or two to decide over two. Is one of my friends missing out?
Sorry for rambling. I've visited the people at both city and country places. I like them all, and their programs. I just wondered if anyone had any GNP success stories or warnings from personal experience. Ultimately I want to move to country, but may need to wait until the kids are older. But I'd like to keep my finger in the country pie!
Cheers,
Matty