7316tracey
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Sun Jul 03, 2011 6:07 pm
Hi All, I have wanted to be a nurse since I was a young child but for many reasons life didn't take me on that path, however here I am craving to become a nurse but my husband is worried about what impact nursing will have on our family life and children as we have a 3 year old and a1 year old. He also went to uni with nurses in the UK and he is worried that there is no fexibility. Please help
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nursemcgerk
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Jul 04, 2011, 01:36 pm
Hi Tracey, I'm off to start the diploma of nursing course next week. I, like you have 3 small children and of course a bit worried how I will cope, juggling time etc. I think if you have a desire to do something and the enthusiasm you can do it! It's not like years ago where studying wasn't as flexible as now, colleges, unis cater for mature students. If by chance you miss a class or lecture, you have the internet to help you. I say, GO FOR IT, I have always wanted to be nurse too and never thought I would get there. You will be a fantastic nurse, if that's what you've always dreamed of. If you have a bit log support, hubbie, family, friends, you will succeed. I am 36, but life is just beginning for me, good luck Tracey......Emma x
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7316tracey
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Jul 04, 2011, 03:14 pm
Thanks Emma :)... I know I could make the studies work because I have the desire to do it, but I do worry about how my hubby will cope with the kids after a long day at work and I'm not around to fed and organize the kids and get them to bed if I'm off working shifts. Maybe I'm better off waiting till the kids are a bit older? I'm 31 so feel I still have a few years to get going, it's just frustrated because my passion for nursing kicked back in 2 years ago while I was pregnant with my little girl but I knew then wasn't the time to start. What area in nursing do you hope to work in? I always wanted to be a pediatric nurse in a children's hospital, but now I'm more open to other areas of nursing.
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nursemcgerk
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Jul 04, 2011, 08:13 pm
Hi Tracey, good to hear from you. You can only decide when you can do the training and i'm sorry if I sounded pushey, I did'nt mean to at all. I'm not sure what area of nursing i'd like to do, i'm just going to wait and see, my prac will be big eye opener so am looking forward to that. I wish you all the best in your nursing, keep posting and let us know how you get on, Emma
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Schizo
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Jul 05, 2011, 05:02 am
Hi Tracey, JUST go for it!!! I can understand the difficulties now but who is to say that when the kids are older that the difficulties would be lesser. I have 4 kids and I too delayed my studies until I was well over the 40s...sob. But the kids will always need you for something or rather...dropping off for games, tuition or birthday parties and etc etc. You might want to modify the way things are done around the house. For example - I cook meals in big batches and freeze them in portions for the family. My freezer looks like I have been shopping at lite and eazee...lol. stacks of microwaveable containers with stickers indicating what's on offer and when it was made. First in First out...lol I also work around 25 hours a week and do some house work - cleaning. My wife who also works full time has to chip in with some house work. I am sure your hubby would be more than happy to put up with a bit of inconvenience and help out whilst you chase your dream. As for flexibility in terms of shift work, I work with a lot of colleagues whose husbands are also nurses and the hospital is always happy to schedule work around their needs. I am a registered nurse and despite working shifts, I am still able to work around fitting my family in, again with some flexibility incorporated. You'll do just fine, especially when you have a desire to be a nurse, you will tend to excel....as I have seen with those who pursued nursing at a mature age.
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7316tracey
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Jul 05, 2011, 02:15 pm
Emma, no you didn't sound pushy al all, thank you for your replies and I wish you great success in you studies. Schizo, I understand what you mean, that there will always be something happening in life to make you think now is not a good time, thank you for that perspective. It's helpful to know that there is flexibility in nursing :) Now to talk to my hubby and convince him that there will be enough flexibility to still have a family and a life :) even if I work part time.
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7316tracey
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Jul 06, 2011, 10:35 pm
WooHoo!!! My hubby has agreed to let me study!! So I am going to apply part time mid year intake at Murdoch. Wish me luck!! Fingers crossed
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Schizo
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Jul 07, 2011, 01:14 am
Congrats Tracey...have fun and best wishes for your journey
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7316tracey
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Jul 13, 2011, 03:21 pm
Woohoo!!! I'm in, books are ordered and classes start in less than 3 weeks... I can't wait!!
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Schizo
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Jul 19, 2011, 05:50 am
@TRACEY....Tick tock...2 more weeks to go...LOL
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ihna
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Aug 31, 2011, 06:46 pm
Hi Tracey, initially there might be some small problems, but in the course of time you will learn to cope with it. Nursing is a profession which needs passion and some special skills which is not possessed by all. IMO, there is no special that a nursing career can ruin ones family life in any way..
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Upcoming RN
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Sep 03, 2011, 05:41 am
Nursing v. family and flexibility is an issue which many people with children face. Most people are able to overcome it because now that it's a degree, it is approximately 13-16 hours week full-time at UTS University of Technology, Sydney and similar on-campus study hours elsewhere, with UNPAID work experience incorporated into the degree. UTS offer 1040 hours over the entire course of degree (degree duration = 3 years minimum full-time, 6 years part-time, 8-10 years maximum for if you fail a year of Uni/"school", which you won't trust me!). Uni is very flexible these days for nurses but the careers are difficult when you graduate (AIN, EN, EEN and RN, CNS1, CNS2, CNC, NP, NUM, RM, MP, MUM - assistant in nursing, enrolled nurse or endorsed enrolled nurse=registered nurse but differently trained as an undergrad (TAFE-15 months more practical, instead of RN at Uni), registered nurse (salary from $52000), clinical nurse specialist level 1/year 1 (salary $78000 approx), clinical nurse specialist lvl 2 (salary from $80000), clinical nurse consultant, nurse practitioner (very specialised nurse with a Master of Nursing (Nurse Practitioner) degree; prescribes medications and orders diagnostic tests within the boundaries of their specialty, much like a junior medical doctor or first-year registrar, but from a more holistic nursing viewpoint. Salary award=approx $102504 gross p.a. (this is my career goal - primary health nurse practioner sub specialising in maternity care&child health - independent practice, allows me to support my family - but let's be honest, running your own practice under constant supervision/in conjunction with a doctor is the pits), nurse unit manager, registered midwife, midwifery specialist e.g. lactation consultant and midwifery practitioner. Sure, if you were fresh out of school like me (in year 12 and have already filled out my university admissions centre UAC application for NINE nursing degrees/combined degrees in nursing/arts), you wouldn't have to worry about flexibility. Us 17 and 18 year olds have it sweet, I kid I kid. Context/background (skip-Politics alert!-off topic:-P) Nursing is, unfortunately no longer an on-the-job enrolled nurse traineeship (hasn't been since 2007 with the election of Kevin Rudd and ripping up of WorkChoices) furthermore, you can no longer technically do an Australian nurse apprenticeship to become an enrolled nurse (since Bob Hawke, I think, cancelled it in 1987, with the last group graduating in 1990). There may be options for oversease training similar to the former Australian student nurse apprenticeship (triple certificate in nursing, Cert II, Cert III and Certificate IV in Nursing - Registered) which as a four year course, similar to the current chef apprenticeship structures, allowed for paid employment and the like, plus the opportunity to specialise as an undergraduate.
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Sep 12, 2011, 08:45 pm
I just wanted to add my perspective. I went thru my full time degree when my little girl was only 7 months old and we also had a son who was 5. My hubby was a beautiful at home dad so that really helped, he was really supportive of me following my dream. I did nursing for a while and found the shift work really hard so I jumped ship and did primary school teaching, now I regret it and after 3 years I am going back nursing. Teaching is totally unflexible and way more demanding. Nursing is by far more flexible and you can choose your days and hours to work around everything else. You don't have to start full time if it is too demanding. Good luck :)
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ihna
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Oct 03, 2011, 04:56 pm
If you are really passionate about nursing then I would always encourage you for that. initially it may cause some family problems regarding the flexibility, but once it becomes a habit, you would be on your track...We have seen a lot of students coming to our institute having fear about family timing flexibility, and we have helped them to overcome those issues with some piece of couselling...
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