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gizjiz

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Sat Jan 16, 2010 5:01 pm

After completing my cert 3 in December. I placed my applications every way, I got the call the day before new years eve to go in for orientation the next day . I was over the moon. WOW..Well my first shift was a Saturday, I was buddied with a nice girl working in wing with a mixture of low care high care and a couple of dementia residents. Well I thought the day went well we worked together well. She even said I did very well for my first day, and she felt happy that her day went well.. So i went home pleased...
Well the next shift a different story I had to work with the so called team leader........... on her wing again same deal a mixture of all sorts, well i had to wake a resident up who was a bit slow getting out of bed she was 92 years old. Ok got her up sat her on toilet, we picked out what she wanted to wear etc.. while sitting on toilet made bed.. then we shower. I believed I still had about 10 minutes left to dress her comb hair etc... Get her to dinning room . NEXT.. again same deal ...After my fifth shower team leader barge in to a resident's room yelled at me for being slow.Breakfast is served at at 8 am. it was around 7.10 I had 3 more showers to do and a sponge to do.. I have done now 10 shifts team leader every day tells me that I am too slow I mollycoddle the residents. We dont have time for that nonsense. I shower eight and sponge three residents and make there beds before 7.45am. I also have to serve breakfast alone for about twenty two residents .. She evens intimidate the residents. With her manor her lack of care and compassion. I had to help her lift a resident off the floor had fallen out off chair, poor darling was crying, told her stop crying and stop making a fuss.. We are busy..

As i write this it is a Saturday afternoon I didn't work today. I work tomorrow, I have a feeling of dread I really don't want to go in the morning.. OMG got tears rolling down my cheeks as I type this.. I am 53 years old .. I feel like I'm seventeen.. Other carers and ENs have come to me and said she is like this with everyone.. I don't get it what the hell is this women doing in age care. I do not know what to do. If everyone is aware on what she is like.. I guess I must see the manager. If I am to survive the next three months.... Has anyone else had a bad experience in their first couple of weeks

Camille

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Jan 17, 2010, 12:35 am

"What the hell is this woman doing in aged care"

You said it. Sounds as though she's in need of a career change and is taking it out on you.
This woman is a bully. My first job I landed a bully too. They seem to smell the newbies!
And for staff to say that she's like that with everyone is no excuse. In fact, it says that her behaviour is condoned and accepted and that is just not on.
First, if you can make notes of what was said to you and any other incidents you care to record.
Next, go and see this woman. Ask her what she expects, explain to her that you're new and that you won't be treated in a disrespectful manner.

Then make a complaint to your manager re your workplace harassment to ensure this bully gets the message. (This also protects you). If the manager is worth 2c he or she will put a stop to her appalling behaviour.

Hang in there and remain confident of your abilities. Don't let this bitch get to you.

gizjiz

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Jan 28, 2010, 06:18 pm

Hi there Camille..
Thank you for kind words of support.. I have officially made complaint verbally and written. New manager did advise she is listening to me. I am to work in another wing which is high care.. with two other carers and they are great.. Learning so much from these guys. I have also requested pm shift..
The pay is not great at this facility. Although I am finding it rewarding to give the care and compassion to the residents. This is why we are in age care.. We keep on smiling...

nursemcgerk

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Jan 29, 2010, 10:17 pm

hi there gizjiz, sorry to hear about your horrible experience, people just don' t care about anyone else other than themselves and unfortunately in this line of work there seems to be so much bullying and people that are unhappy in their jobs it's not funny. i had a real cow when i was training for cert III, it was a saturday and the facility was short staffed, i was doing this shift to make up my hours of training so was an extra pair of hands, the cow just took her shitty day out on me, banging cutlery on tables, telling resident that they were spoilt( because i was helping her to take medication, she had dementia for gods sake), giving me the shitty jobs that she should have been doing. In the end i just walked away with tears in my eyes feeling totally useless and demoralised. I was thinking, im 35 with 3 kids, how can a small person like her bring me down so bad, but it doesnt matter about size its the way bullies have a knack of finding weakneses in people. I should have reported her behaviour and now i kick myself that i let her get away with it, that she may do it again to someone else but if anything she has taught me a lesson that i wont take shit from anyone at work. my husband said why didnt you stand upto her, to just think it was one of my kids and someone was picking on them and thats what changed my attitude. Keep with it, sorry for babbling but this is the first time i had spoke to anyone apart fom my hubbie, so thanks you have helped me. Good on you for reporting it, hope you get positive result and shes kicked off the team, we go and study to enjoy our work not for you to dread work with bullies like these people
emma x

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